Hand Wash Only is a paid newsletter by Lee Tilghman, author of If You Don’t Like This, I Will Die.
I’m the creator of Lee From America, the first wellness blog that put smoothie bowls and chia parfaits on the map. Now I write this newsletter, a landing place for essays, notes, and observations written from a life guided by discernment, agency, and nuance in modern culture.
Because I’ve been extremely online, offline, deep inside wellness and on the fringe, I bring a unique perspective that bushes boundaries and hopefully, makes you feel a little less alone.
I have spent the past 16 years inside and outside wellness, media, and the internet economy. I have been extremely online, fully offline, and everywhere in between. I write from the vantage point of no obligation to trend cycles or performance metrics (though sometimes, I can still feel tempted by the ŌURA ring. I’m only human.)
What to Expect
This newsletter is written primarily for paid subscribers.
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If you are looking for constant output or algorithm-friendly content, this may not be for you. If you value thinking, taste, and writing that respects your time, you are in the right place. I welcome you to join!




